Sunday, December 16, 2012

Helping my,Fiance,my Hero and best friend a Veteran of the USMC



My name is Jenny Marie Parton and I am a United States Citizen and Native of Ohio. I have a story to tell about a USMC man that needs help in the Judicial System.

 In November of 2011, I met Jacob across the street from where I lived in Crumpton, Maryland where I resided with my 3 children, step son, and husband. When I met Jacob he was really disturbed, because his wife left him with his 2 year old daughter and fled to Arizona without letting him know. He and his wife had drug related problems they were going through, because of Bath Salt that was allowed in stores and on the Market. This led to a lot of problems between the both of them and their family. He was kicked out of his family’s home and went to live with a relative that was an alcoholic/abuser in which made things worse for him. The relative had to go away for a while to get better and Jacob was left at home with no food to get throughout the day and no help from relatives, because they thought he was a bad person because of his abuse.
   He was ordered to move out of the home by his relative and was going to be a homeless Veteran. I took it into my heart to help him and try to get him better for he was abandoned by his wife and child. My husband and I at the time agreed mutually to help him out. The location where we were at was full of drugs (crack and cocaine) especially. I did not know this when we moved to the location , because we were more interested in the house and didn’t hear any of that stuff when we moved to that location from Annapolis, Md. During the first Month that Jacob was there he was struggling to keep it together because he wanted his child more than anything to see her again. While this occurrence was happening he was suffering with PTSD/TBI and I was really unfamiliar with this until I started to research these two types of mental injuries. Not a good combination, because one makes one worse in a Veteran that was injured in an explosion from insurgents.
Months went by and he was doing better and he continued to live with us as a family. We did everything together and he helped my husband with the house and took care of things while working on a Government program (IT Administrator) in Annapolis that required almost all his time to spend with us. Jacob and I spent so much time together we started to fall in love in which was causing problems; because we knew it was wrong. We tried to ignore it and made things worse between us and Jacob did not want to cause problems because we were helping him out of a really tough time in his life. We stayed in Crumpton for a year and being in a small town no one cared for new residents in their community and said some really horrific things about me and my family.
 We then moved out in February to Queenstown, Md where a man by the name of Mr. Simmons owned at 115 hogue farm lane, Queenstown, Md 21658. Jacob had moved back in with his parents and was not allowed to see me if he lived there. Well needless to say they kicked him out and he had nowhere to go and checked himself into a program at the VA hospital, because he was addicted to pain pills administered by the VA in Baltimore, Md. The wounds he has with stained has caused him chronic pain in his back , making it hard for him to get in and out of bed as well as getting up from sitting position. The pills then became addictive and then put on a program using suboxone to control pain and treat opiod addiction. After going through the program he had no place to live and I asked my Husband at the time if we could help him (he knew the truth about us then, because I told him). Jacob moved in with us and my husband at the time moved out with his gf and basically abandoned me and my children, because I had no job or much income at all (94.00) a week for three kids did not do much.  Mr. Simmons knew that I was struggling and I had talked to him and Kevin Day a realtor for him about the situation. They understood at first, but I could not afford a 2,250.00 payment to live in his home. It was in the summer when all this was happening. Jacob mowed the lawn which was about 5 acres of land and we tried to keep up on the flower beds, etc.. but with the 100 degree heat waves that were occurring made it difficult to work in the gardens, plus take care of three kids. Mr. Simmons did not act like we were fit for living in his home, because we were poor and trying to make it (he hired gardeners). I then contacted Mr. Day about helping me find a place that we would afford and he offered his truck if needed.
Furthermore, I contacted another realtor to help me find a place, because I did not like how they were making me feel about myself (basically belittled me). We worked with her and looked at several homes, but they were just too expensive.  I had talked to Mr. Simmons again telling him how we were struggling (lost my job because I got sick for a couple months) and offered to pay for groceries to help us out (he is a rich man) . He never showed up and never showed up… Jacob decided on impulse to take some of his things out of the garage and pawn them for money to help take care of us with food (that he offered) . Mr. Simmons never locked the garage on the property and in which was easy access to anyone for that matter. He later on found out that Jacob had taken some things and told him to leave the premises and he did.. This is where everything was falling apart for us!

Jacob took some things from our home, because my ex moved back in due to his personal issues as well and didn’t want to pay for a home that he did not live in with cancelling the lease. Which I have court papers stating that Mr. Simmons was kicking us out and was resolved by keeping up with the payments. Jacob took some things in the house to pay for us, but had all the access to it for over a year and I let him, because legally it was mine too.
I know this all sounds so messy, but at the time it was us trying to make it! My ex and I had marital problems before and I have a record to prove that one.
In October he was told to leave the premises and he did.. I packed my things up and headed to Ohio with him leaving my car behind, thinking it was going to be brought out here.  We knew Mr. Simmons wanted us out anyways because I am not wealthy basically. The day I left two vehicles were stalking the house and I have pictures of one of the trucks. My daughter and I were running around the house trying to get ready to leave. We did not think anything of it and ran around the house naked, because we were in such a hurry. The truck when you looked at it did not show anyone sitting in it, because of the Sun and they were chopping corn and thought they left it in the field to come back and get it. My ex-husband came home and I told him about the truck and he seen two men sitting in it and reported it to the police and they came out and told them to leave (police records on call will state this information). Mr. Simmons was stalking us and had men see my daughter (14) and me without clothing.

Forgot to mention that we checked Jacob in the police department several times, because Mr. Simmons did report the issue to the police, but we were unsure what all the things he was doing. (He did not think we had right to talk to him). The police said, “We have no record on you”.  So we then drove to Ohio to my sister’s apartment in Marysville, Ohio.  When we got to Ohio we even tried to check in twice and had nothing come back on his name. Also, a few weeks ago Jacob and I were out and about and Jacob with his heavy foot got pulled over for speeding and spent a night in jail since his license was from out of state and he had a traffic ticket from Maryland that we had forgotten all about. Did they say anything then, “NO”.  Throughout the weeks we have started to get established and he had his name on everything from a lease agreement to job and family services which information goes to the Government.
My ex-husband has stated that he will contact the DA on Monday, December, 17,2012 to drop his charges and stated that he has no problem with Jacob and that he is a good man.

On 12/12/12 after picking my daughter up from school I was pulled over by several cop cars and had guns pointed at my car, my child, me and Jacob with a Governments Warrant on his arrest. I went to the court room on the following day and being new to the legal system with things like this .. No one would listen to me or let me defend my Marine in court. The then rescheduled another one and put him on a bond of 100,000(10% down)https://twitter.com/jennyparton1 dollars in a poor neighborhood to boot instead of house arrest until we would get notice of the court hearing or had Maryland come get him for the hearing when it was going to occur. He mentioned in court that he has never been in trouble and served our country and to give him a chance to be with his family until proven guilty. He suffers severe PTSD/TBI from the USMC (OEF/OIF) War and has honorable discharge as well. I am not asking people for a hand out, but this is a non-sense matter that Mr. Simmons is doing to a Man that gave him his freedoms and he abandoned us as well when he offered to help. I ask as well for people to look over the Union County Judicial System, because people are serving for having one pill in their hand (30 days), and a gentleman protected his home from a man that was drunk and would not leave and put force of his fist and got 90 days of jail time. Why do tax payers want to waste their money on this?
Please I ask of all the Military and Veterans to help protect the rights of Veterans and free my Hero that helped to save many lives of Americans. God Bless the USA like I was taught when I was a kid in school and prayers to all the families who have lost loved ones due to neglect.  

Sincerely,
 I, Jenny Marie Parton pledge allegiance to the Flag of the United States of America, and to the Republic for which it stands, one Nation under God, indivisible, with liberty and justice for all.

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